bireminders:

lchurley:

slamdunkthefunk:

slamdunkthefunk:

slamdunkthefunk:

If I put a go fund me or something up to try to raise money for the $7,000 in eviction fees and legal fees I’m being sued for because my piece of shit ex left me with the apartment and all the debt we had, would anyone donate or would it be mostly a waste of time

Some background: I dated a girl in like 2012-2013 and it turns out she was actually the worst person

Long story short, she thought I was cishet when we started dating, reluctantly said she was fine with me being transgender before moving here, moved here and we soon found out that was not the case lol

So she cheated on me, I was actually incredibly cool about it all things considered: kept her on my health insurance, let her keep my car for a bit so she could keep her job, kept her on my cell phone bill, etc.

Annnnnd about a month after she cheated on me, all of her stuff was gone, including an 800 dollar computer and my car? So she bounced with my car, my computer (both of which I needed to sell) and before she left she took what she wanted out of my makeup, dumped a bunch of my HRT and I found some of my cutest undies stuffed between the washer and dryer with GUM stuck in it? Like seriously?

So yeah she left me with all of the bills and loans, which I defaulted on: credit card that I took out to buy that computer, Verizon account that was forcefully closed and most importantly, the lease on our apartment which was 6 months from being over.

So I did full service, in person sex work for a while to try to keep my lights on, while trying to not kill myself or get killed by my dates, but eventually Roxie (the only person that gave a shit about me, who was just my friend at the time) convinced me to stop putting myself in danger and just deal with the fall out as it happened. It was absolutely the right choice and she and I have rebuilt so much since then: paid off the credit cards (1.5k) the Verizon balance (1.5k) and done so much personally that it’s weird to think it all looked so grim

So the final chapter in this shitty book is that I got a summons from the landlord of the apartment I was evicted from for a $7,000 lawsuit summons and because they’re not interested in tracking her down, I’m the only one they can reach and so I’m going this alone, essentially. I could really use a fucking break at this point because I’m trying my absolute best to not have to do anything stupid for money and still rebuild my life after all of this

So anyway I made a venmo (@tvsxe) and I have paypal info if anyone wants to donate

Please message me if you can afford to donate anything, I’m just trying to not have everything ruined

Here, to make it easier I’m gonna link my Venmo and you can also donate to us via Paypal.

Honestly anything you can give means so much, and if you can’t spare anything please reblog this post. If anyone wants proof before they donate, I’ll send you a picture of the summons with the amounts owed, just ask me for it. I know a lot of people try to scam others, but I’m really just trying to rebuild my life.

I had the displeasure of knowing the person who did this to Tara and can attest to what a shitty terrible person they were and to all of this. Please help Tara out if you can

I know this isn’t exactly my blog content but please consider donating if you can! And if not please reblog and spread the word