I’ll try to make things brief: My father is a gigantic alcoholic and cocaine user with a pornography addiction who has detached himself from his family and is psychologically abusive.
My mother is a ball of vitriolic nerves who constantly seizes control of my bodily autonomy. She HATES the fact that her son is gay and will make up any excuse to stop me from associating with ANY form of gay culture. She will constantly do inspections on my body for bumps or sores, and if anything is out of the ordinary she will have a fake panic attack and insist that I have HIV or AIDS and need to go to a hospital. She also gaslights me by insisting that my habit of drinking and smoking marijuana after work has caused me to turn into my father (which she knows is a hot button topic for me) just so I can side with her during the (frequent) arguements she has with my father.
I can’t take it anymore, and this October I AM going to leave. It’s not 100% set in stone where I will go, but I’ve got at least 3 of my friends willing to take me in.
I work as a 22-year-old uber/lyft driver but unfortunately I don’t currently live anywhere near a city with a large enough population that would allow me to make as much money as I need to. All 3 of the potential cities I could move to have big enough populations to where I’d make more than enough money. Currently I am able to make payments on my car, but that’s it. My entire life feels like stagnation: Wake up, get yelled at for being a failure, drive, come home, and get yelled at some more. Rinse and repease. And I’m fucking sick of it.
If there’s anything you can do to help me while I prepare to get out of this environment it would be VERY appreciated and I will try my absolute hardest to pay y’all back. I need to leave this house. I will never be able to realize my dreams of filmmaking (or just plain LIVING) a reality if I don’t ASAP. Please consider helping this flamboyant gay man out.
My paypal is paypal.me/HuntyBriscoe
Thank you for reading this wall of text, and have a good day.
This post is still painfully relevant. The only change is I’m aiming to leave next year rather than October. Please share or donate if you can. Thank you all.
Make sure to spread both of these links around as much as possible and do not stop calling your reps and pressuring those that voted against net neutrality to change their vote!
is being into coffee an older sibling thing bc everyone i know who loves coffee is the oldest child
like every oldest child ik loves coffee, the middle child hates it/prefers tea, and the youngest will drink it but only if its super sweet n has a ton of milk
rb w/ if ur oldest, middle, or youngest child and how u feel about coffee
First, a note: I ask that people please reblog this to spread this since the tags are kinda unusable right now, especially when a post has external links within it.
Dreamwidth has been my main active posting platform for a year and a half now, and I’ve noticed a lot of bloggers talking about jumping ship over to DW with tumblr’s uhhhhhh current state of affairs.
But DW is kinda bland and boring if you’re too young to have been of the LiveJournal generation, and therefore don’t know where to look or start in order to build your friends list and find communities, so I’m going to do some of the legwork for you.
the_great_tumblr_purge: I made a dw community specifically for people jumping ship from tumblr to reconnect with each other.
addme: a friending community where you pimp yourself out and find other people with similar interests that you might want to see on your reading page.
addme_fandom: similar to above, only with a stronger emphasis on finding people based on your fandoms.
fandomcalendar: a community where you can find fandom events, such as big bangs, exchanges, challenges, bingos, etc. and other fandom communities that might suit your interests.
i hate to ask since you have all been so supportive and helpful since this whole foot debacle started, but medical bills are starting to catch up to me, and with a $500 surgery in a few days, $55 a session physical therapy, and apparently a $350 ER bill i thought i payed but was just told i sure didnt, im panicking about money.
im working hard to get comms done ive already been payed for but with recovery as well as appointments and surgery i cant take on any more commissions at the moment.
if you could spare a couple dollars i would greatly appreciate it and it would mean the world to me. thank you all for being so patient with me as i try to get back on my feet…. literally.
I know there’s a lot of tension after Tumblr’s new policy annouced for December 17th, but reblog this if you aren’t leaving Tumblr so that other blogs can know they aren’t going to be completely alone!
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